BBNaija Sheggs Calls Bella Selfish

We now have one of the season’s most reliable ships thanks to Bella and Sheggz. Their tight friendship and fun personalities have made them popular among their housemates. Like in any typical relationship, when one partner is unhappy with anything that is happening, the other is obligated to communicate their discontent as well.

Sheggz was particularly vocal about Bella’s attitude today as it was one of those days. Sheggz made a meal for Bella, but she didn’t seem to want to eat it, which is when the argument between the two began. Sheggz brought the food to her bedside and, despite her requests for him to remove it, left it there in an effort to get her to eat.

He made an effort to work away but later returned to speak with Bella. He told her that she was selfish and self-centered in a kind but forceful manner. He continued by explaining why he had such feelings.

He asserted that his self-centered nature prevents him from being able to be affected by her attitude.

Bella apologised and got up to dance while they were talking. Following the brief break in Sheggz’ tirade, they returned to bed where Sheggz continued to discuss how she has been a better partner than he has been.

In a bid to make things a bit softer while passing his points he apologised for the way he may have approached the matter because he placed her on a high pedestal.

He feels Bella is not caring enough for him and in as much as she may say she does, he doesn’t see her acting on her words. Bella in her defence said Sheggz had set the bar too high and it was hard to reciprocate all that he had done. Sheggz responded that he did not need her to put in as much effort as himself because he liked to be the one to do more. He however insisted she wasn’t doing the barest minimum in her actions to prove she liked him.

Sheggz continued by saying he is scared of a new relationship because the last two relationships he had were with ladies who really loved and he wasn’t sure he was ever going to meet anyone like that again.

Bella tried to allay his fears saying she actually liked him but doesn’t know how much she has to say it for him to understand. Sheggz said again he doesn’t doubt her feelings for him but insisted the way they treated each other mattered a lot to him because he is about going the extra mile for someone you care for.