Big Soso Opens Up on Rift with Dede – BBNaija 2025

When asked by Joanna if she had an issue with Dede, Soso admitted that her feelings only started building up recently.

“Before a few days ago, I honestly didn’t,” Soso confessed. “But I have this habit I’m still working on. If you’re my person and I see someone treating you anyhow, I’ll carry the matter on my head. That was really the problem.”

She pointed to what she described as a “triangle” involving Jason, Sultana, and Dede. “I’m naturally closer to Sultana, not really because of friendship but because we’re from the same place. But to be honest, I don’t like how much she enjoys gisting. I prefer going directly to the person rather than sitting around discussing them.”

Soso went on to explain why the situation cut deeper for her. “I see Jason and Koyin as my people. Koyin especially feels like family to me. So when that whole ‘fish’ incident happened, even though they didn’t take it personally, aunty here (she pointed to herself) carried it on her head. That was wrong because I didn’t even give Dede a chance to explain. And really, it wasn’t my business. It was after I reacted that my eyes cleared.”

According to Soso, her frustration was also linked to earlier observations in the kitchen. “When I was in charge of cooking, I noticed she didn’t usually help out, but once the food was ready, she was among the first to show up. Things like that irritate me. I never got the chance to talk to her about it. So it wasn’t just one thing — it was a buildup, and eventually, it became a trigger.”